Nigerians living in the diaspora have taken to social media to express why they do not regret leaving the country, citing worsening conditions in Nigeria as justification for their relocation to nations like the United States, the United Kingdom, and other developed countries.
The conversation began after an X (formerly Twitter) user, Michael Taiwo, posed a thought-provoking question:
“Nigerians abroad, with everything you now know, do you honestly think staying in Naija would’ve been better?”
The question triggered a flood of responses from Nigerians overseas, many of whom insisted that their decision to leave was not only justified but also essential for a better quality of life.
UK-based life coach and writer, Solomon Buchi, said remaining in Nigeria would have subjected him to even greater levels of police brutality and emotional distress.
“My son would have been born into that dysfunctional society, and my anxiety would be through the roof. With what I know now, I honestly wish I had left Nigeria in my teenage years,” he wrote.
Similarly, Sir Sean, a Nigerian based in the United States, acknowledged that while life abroad comes with its challenges, it still offers structure and reward for effort.
“I might be starting from scratch, but at least there’s a system. I’m not begging NEPA for electricity or praying I don’t end up in a hospital without doctors. The West isn’t paradise, but here, hard work actually pays off,” he said.
Another contributor, Samuel Desh, who also resides in the UK, shared a personal experience of being harassed by police officers in Nigeria while riding in an Uber. He posted a video of the incident and contrasted it with how police abroad respond with professionalism.
“Maybe I’ll consider returning when officers in Nigeria allow citizens to record them without intimidation, when they treat people with dignity and respond to emergencies like they do here,” he said.
For Obiorah Otu, the decision to relocate was driven by a need to secure a better future for his family.
“You simply can’t compare life abroad to Nigeria. Politicians have turned the country into a nightmare. Until real change comes, things will only deteriorate. Leaving was the best choice—for my children’s safety and education,” he stated.
Adekunle Oderinde added, “Relocating gives you a shot at real success. It’s not just about peace or safety—it’s the chance to apply yourself in an environment where integrity and hard work matter.”
However, not everyone agreed. Some Nigerians still believe there’s hope in staying and building the country from within.
One user, Purple Fire, offered a contrasting view:
“Honestly, if you have purpose and determination, staying in Nigeria can be better. Yes, the West has structure, but it also comes with loneliness, cultural shock, and endless bills. In Nigeria, you’re at home—there’s family, community, and genuine support.”
The debate continues to reflect the complex decisions Nigerians face in choosing between enduring systemic challenges at home and embracing the opportunities—and sacrifices—of life abroad.